Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Tan Fat Looks Better Than White Fat

How about that swimsuit season? Who went out and spent money on spray tans and bottle tans to look better in their swimsuits this year and every year subsequently? I once had a boyfriend tell me that "tan fat looks better than white fat." Personally, I don't think any of it looks good.

It is at this point I don't care. I don't care about:
  • Hair on my legs.
  • Tanning.
  • Fixing my hair.
  • Wearing makeup.
  • or anything else that makes me attractive to anyone else.
I usually get frustrated with myself and start fixing myself up.
I'm already starting to dress nicer. I am hoping these nice clothes will be taking a trip to the local thrift store very soon. In my closet, I have huge tubs of clothes I would kill to be able to wear again. I've had them for years and I am bound and determined to get my happy hiney in them again.

My goal for myself isn't:
  • to get healthy, but I want to for myself and my family.
  • to get skinny...that will never happen. I just want to feel good in my skin and be able to do things with my kids without struggling.
  • to be able to fit in my vehicle comfortably...because who doesn't like their belly hitting the steering wheel when they drive? Isn't that a scary thing.
  • to be the best dressed mom out there, because that will never happen. I am trying to dress nicer, but I am never, by far, the best dressed.
My goal for myself is:
  • To be the best me that I can be...whatever that may be.
  • To be happy with who I am.
  • To be happy with who I've become.
  • To be happy with what I've survived.
  • To be content with life as it is right at this moment.
  • To not need to constantly be "dieting" but instead be able to just eat healthy.
  • To not bullshit myself into thinking I can't do something.
  • To not think I need the weight on myself in order to stave off something or someone.
  • To enjoy life to the fullest I can every day.
  • To spend as much time I can with my family every single day, because they are my life and they have proven to me that life is too damn short.

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